I discovered the Padgett Messages and this site in the end of year 2007, and have read, I think, 96% of the messages on this website. And have made progress in growing in Love and soul perceptions and have found these teachings and this Love to be "working"

But actually I have some doubts, and thought it best to ask from you, guys.
Firstly, my heart tells me already a long time that I belong to a heavenly place and that God is my close and dear Father. So that is the good side. The bad side is that: I am a little bit afraid, that somekind of a bad surprise might await me, when I would pass over to the spirit world. That is just a fear of the mind, and the fear is there, because of some contradictions, that are unsolved for me.
And these are these:
- In Padgett Messages I have read, that you can get out of hell. And that there are different spheres and heavens, including Celestial Heavens.
- But SO MANY others have had near-death experiences and heaven-visitations, where they describe going to heaven and there they have visited the throne room of God, seen the pearly gates and the walled city with streets of gold.
AND what mostly concerns me is that, often there are guides (angels), who tell them, that you need to accept the blood-redemption of Jesus and the death on the cross to become saved. And that you ONLY can make the decision on earth, later it would be impossible (in the spirit world to receive redemption or to accept Jesus).
My question is that: howcome so many people tell a story about their heaven-visits and OOBEs that version of heaven, where God is sitting on a throne (in a visible form, a big white Being), and the angels worshiping Him, and the other stuff, that is written in the Revelation of John in the Bible? (Like "the boy who went to heaven" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F3xItrGOi6Q, and another here: http://theboywhocamebackfromheaven.com and another page: http://spiritlessons.com/dreams_and_vis ... of_God.htm)
Are they all "false visions" or the "right ones"? How can we discern the truth?
Only the P.Messages tell a different story.
Any help / "proof" ?
Thank you!